DBA_DATA_FILES.AUTOEXTENSIBLE will tell you if a file is autoextend or not.
You can enable or disable autoextend whenever you like, eg
SQL> alter database datafile 'C:\ORACLE\ORADATA\DB122\DEMO.DBF' autoextend off;
Database altered.
SQL> alter database datafile 'C:\ORACLE\ORADATA\DB122\DEMO.DBF' autoextend on next 100m;
Database altered.